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What is family to you? Well, for me it should be the one\u2019s comfort and safest place everyone should possess but not everyone is lucky to have that comfort naturally. I can put it as not all humans are born with talents. The statistics say only 1% of humankind is born with talents and the rest just do hard work. And that hard worker peoples are as special as talented ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Humankind itself is precious because they have consciousness, judgment, and the
ability to resolve. And that is why they work on their weaknesses, their mistakes, and their relationships with themselves as well as with others. Unfortunately, the way we try to fix ourselves and our relationships with others we do not try that harder with our family members. There are thousands of arguments with siblings, a hard share of the distance between you and your parents, especially, with brown parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know one as I am from brown parents. In my early 20\u2019s specifically after my 21, I
realized how important it is to have them in your life. To be with them or to be there for them. Before that, I ignored them knowing they will never understand what I feel, what I wanted to do, or who I am in this mere world. Though it remains the same even now, I started to think about what makes them have such unfairness towards children. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Where does this come from? Are they brought up like this too? Then that\u2019s a pity, they weren\u2019t in good condition on their own. They never understood they are being the same to their child as they were! A culture they hold in them. They didn\u2019t have a warm environment of their own. There was a lot they have missed in their life too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maybe their wishes were demolished too, and their parents also never knew who they were too. If so, then this is a loop one cannot break until one seeks for it, seeks wisdom for it. I wanted to break the circle, and I found utter misery by doing so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The more I seek the more I find that the root of one\u2019s upbringing shapes our reasoning to see the world or deal with the world. So, rather than for them to understand me, I simply turn the page to understand them better, and after years of work what matters the most is family. A dysfunctional or not, family is family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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